a short chat about food

What do you eat everyday? Do you think you have supplied enough nutrition for yourself?

In a few minutes conversation last night, when I was having my supper, a friend of mine was talking about the elements that is needed by our body.

my friend : What is that (while pointing at my plate) Is it fish?

me : No, it is chicken and egg.

myfriend : Ou, ya, they are good, have lots of protein.

me : (gosh, for this past few moths, I’ve never thought about nutrition in my dinner, just about the taste :p )

my friend : how is the kiwi juice? is it nice ? (there’s a bottle of kiwi juice on the table)

me : yeah, want to try?

my friend : no, thanks, just wanna see, is it one hundred percent natural? (then she looked at the back label of the bottle)

Humm…, she mumbled.

me : (don’t know what she’s seen, then I turned the label to me) and I noticed that my juice is only 10% natural fruit. but it’s tasty though :p . “I will be more careful next time I buy juices”, I promised myself.

myfriend : u know, we need to take more calcium in our age, that’s why I prefer ice cream rather than chocolate candies… (a couple of minutes ago, she gave away her chocolate candies to me and others and excitedly take ice cream bars in fridge)… -ps. the ice cream is more milky than the candies-

my impression is that she really care about what she eat ^_^ .good. I should have managed to noticed what I eat.  Doesn’t need to have huge amount of food but more important is the quality, just like my friend. From what I’ve seen, she doesn’t eat a lot and mostly vegetables and fruits (but she loves chocolates :p ) and goes to the gym like everyday…. hm… sort of healthy life style..

 

 

Here we go, an old blog but new series…

It’s been several months ago since the last time I write in this blog… Now I want to write here again, hopefully I can do it continuously…

Bekerja di Bank Konvensional

Beberapa waktu lalu ada lowongan dari sebuah bank konvensional yang terkemuka. Hati ini pun bertanya-tanya, bagaimanakah hukumnya? Hasil membaca dan diskusi yang kemudian ku lakukan membuatku mantap bahwa sebaiknya kita menghindarinya.

Menurut Syaikh Bin Baz rahimahullah (rangkuman) :

Bekerja di Bank tersebut yang mengambil bunga dari pinjaman pokok dan denda keterlambatan membayar hutang seperti di atas, hukumnya tidak boleh (haram). Karena bekerja di Bank tersebut berarti bertolong-menolong dalam berbuat dosa dan permusuhan. Sementara Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala berfirman.

“Dan tolong menolong kamu dalam (mengerjakan) kebaikan dan takwa, dan jangan kalian tolong menolong dalam berbuat dosa dan pelanggaran. Dan bertakwalah kepada Allah, sesungguhnya Allah amat berat siksaNya”.[Al-Ma'idah : 2]

Dalam riwayat lain :

Jabir bin Abdillah r.a. meriwayatkan:

“Rasulullah melaknat pemakan riba, yang memberi makan dengan hasil riba, dan dua orang yang menjadi saksinya.” Dan beliau bersabda: “Mereka itu sama.” (HR Muslim)

Ibnu Mas’ud meriwayatkan:

“Rasulullah saw. melaknat orang yang makan riba dan yang memberi makan dari hasil riba, dua orang saksinya, dan penulisnya.” (HR Ahmad, Abu Daud, Ibnu Majah, dan Tirmidzi)

Sementara bagi orang yang sudah terlanjur bekerja di bank tersebut (merangkum dari beberapa ulama):

It’s been approved!

Today is the day of my final assignment proposal presentation. Alhamdulillah… it ‘s been approved now, Thanks God.. Although it is not so smooth when some lecturers ask me continously while I can’t give satisfactioning answers, I was really been helped by my supervisor. She help me to explain my final assignments details. Thank Ma’am…luv u so much ^_^

And although I think my assignments is not so easy, I feel so ease now. Well, gonna get rest tonight. Yesterday I only slept for 2 hours. T_T . hope for the best…Ya Allah…hope this will be a good start for me …

 

 

Prepare for Final Assignment Proposal Presentation

Today I practiced to have a presentation on Monday, November 15th . It will be my Final Assignment Proposal Presentation. I have to explain what I will do for my Final Assignment. Final Assignment is needed to be graduated as a bachelor. I hope everything will be fine on Monday.

My supervisor revised my presentation slide. I need to give more examples to make it clearer.  Besides revising my slides, she also asked to me to practice speaking in front of her. It was shocking since I have no preparation before. Then I try my best to explain my slide and pretending that it was the true presentation. Well, I found it difficult to explain clearly. I lost my words.  From that situation I plan to make such a draft for presentation scenario. Then after that I will follow what I will have planned. So it will be easier on Monday. Hope so…

 

hard decision

in almost end of this day, I want to write some unimportant note about my today’s experience.
It is about a week ago I start to wonder when I’ll be graduated from these university. Environment, assignments and all of other pressure I got made me want to run away and go as fast as possible to go from here. But it’ll not be so easy. But besides all of that I found that it is sometimes comfortable to be here (at a place called LP), sometimes it is difficult and feels so heavy to think that I’ll left all my beloved friends here and some other considerations made me so confused….it brings me to two choice, first, to graduate fast but being pressed with all assignments and doing final task in the same time and also all other responsibilities in student organization etc, and second, is to be focus on doing all my responsibilities and assignments now and final assignments later in the last semester means that I’ll graduate a little bit longer( 6 months longer)…
after a long and frustrating assesment, (take a deep breath)… today I said to my supervisor that I decided to be graduated in June (means 6 months longer)…yeah..it is easy to say to her, but..after that…is this the right decision ??? don’t know…. just hoping for the best…

Pelangiku…

hujan begitu deras mengguyur bumi
seolah tak ada waktu lagi
air itu tumpah ruah dalam sekejap
membasahi semua yang dilewatinya
manusia berlari berantakan
sambil menggerutu menyumpahi hujan

A step forward to be mature

The right quote for me today maybe : “It is not important of what happen to you in this life, but what most important is how your attitude towards it” I have heard about this quote since I was in senior high school. But it seems like I really feel it today. So many things happen in the past 3 years. Things happened to me uncontrollably. I mean, it is so unpredictable. I can’t figure it out. It was so different with things when I was in senior high school. I could do everything I want. I know where this step will go. I know what I want. I work hard to pursue my dream. But something wrong is that I don’t make a second plan, so when I couldn’t get my dream, I lost my way. Desperate and sad, it was me at that time. It is only about 1 year ago when I finally believe that this was happening to me!! Now, when I feel I ‘ve lost my past personality, I think that is false. I know I can. It doesn’t matter what happens to me, what most important is how I can handle it… We can’t determine what will happen, we can only plan, so we have to learn how to face it and perform the best attitude towards everything  cause anything can happen …

Satisfy All, is it really possible?

Life is full of choices. Everyday we make many choices. And of course we have to be responsible to all we’ve decided to choose. That’s the difficult ones.
When you have decided to do something, you need to give commitment to it especially if it relates to many people’s business. The problem is when you have more commitment than what actually you can do. You can not say sorry to people when you can not come for them because of your other commitment to other people. Usually we can do this. We ask for their forgiveness and understanding. Sometimes it is okay, but everybody has their own limit of patience. They might be hard to understand or accept our position even when you had tried so hard to satisfy all. It is so hurt if they can’t understand when you can’t come because you’re at the same time is in another place doing your other responsibility. So what I can say is just “Don’t make too many promise or commitment”. In the end, we do unable to satisfy all the people

Defeated by the Small

This is a story about monkey and winds. Once upon a time, there is a monkey that is very proud of himself, he is so arrogant. It made many winds don’t like the monkey. They decide to discuss about it. They arrange to make competition for winds to blow up the monkey from the place of its rest on top of a tree.